Married guy, need discretion but looking for, er, cock fun

Man in Derbyshire, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 2 weeks ago

Hi, I'm a cliche - a married guy whose wife does not know about this side of life. If that upsets or offends please don't judge, just block me! Sorry never sure what to put in this bit.

I am quite tall, dark haired, smooth chested, straight acting and married. My cock is uncut, not very long but quite thick (although nerves might be a challenge initially). Only interested in safe sex, sorry.

I fooled around with guys a bit in my youth, in a very vanilla way - mostly handjobs in adult cinemas, frankly. Had a my cock sucked a few times, but have barely sucked cock myself (and never swallowed cum). It has been years since I have done much with guys. I have had a couple of 'happy ending' massages from men over the past 20-odd years, but that is it. Largely as it's hard to find places offering them, especially when I can't spend a fortune. Recommendation gladly received for male or female massage locations. I don't kiss guys, sorry - just not interested. My interest in guys is purely physical.

What am I looking for? My dream would be simple: a porn-watching masturbation buddy. If anyone out there enjoys watching porn, can accommodate, and would like someone to watch with then I might be your guy. A bit of mutual wanking to porn is one of life's great pleasures imho.

That said, I love getting my cock sucked, and being very inexperienced with cockplay I would love to play with other cocks. I can't promise to do more than wank it, but I hope to build up to sucking cock at some point. Very occasionally when watching porn I get turned on by the idea of sucking cock myself, and even occasionally fantasize about being fucked. I used (many years ago!) hire working girls to take me with a strap on. That was many years ago but occasionally I fantasise about trying the real thing.

Am usually attracted to older men who are shorter than me (love a silver fox, and am not fussed about looks when it comes to men - an older guy with his cock out is plenty for me (blush!) - but nothing is set in stone.

I should add - I am at the shy end of the spectrum, so might need a bit of coaxing, sorry. If you find nerves simply annoying, you will have to try someone else. Sorry.

Cannot accommodate, but have a car so can travel within reason. Cannot always get away owing to not living alone and having a life beyond this site, but I am serious. Just busy!

Will block anyone with bareback anywhere near their profile, sorry - safety is more important than getting my end away. Please just block me rather than lecturing me on that one.

Have been on a couple of times previously, but fell foul of the verification system - couldn't upload a full length photo, so was booted. Hoping to stick around, this time!

48 years old, Bi-curious

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Versatile
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Men
Aged from 50 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Wanking, Webcam, Voyeurism, Safe sex, Oral, Older guys, Naturism, Bears, Anal, 1 on 1

Verified Genuine Profile

*ombarrow (72), Man on 10 September 2025 by Webcam:
Really nice guy on his first virgin cam. He was soft but soon got hard and we both had a great wank cumming together. Will go again with this lovely guy.

*ibonacci (63), Man on 16 June 2025 by Meeting in person:
Nice guy, genuine, gave me lovely oral. Would definitely meet again.