Experienced top.

Man in Bordon, South East, UK   TickPhoto Verified

... "Hopes and other things rising.". Sunday

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 5 hours ago

I am a very experienced gentle top, seeking SLIM, smooth guys for fun, laughs and slow sensual sex.

Slim oriental or Asian guys go to the top of the queue!


My cums are very intense and long lasting. They can be disturbing but are neither a Heart Attack nor an Epileptic fit YET.


I offer techniques/information/lessons on massages, saunas and nudist beaches. I have over 100 verification's but am careful and choosy. My verifs are displayed in date order and are not selected or edited, what you see is what others say.

Clean and imaginative, I like lots of movement, new positions and variety. Rarely is it a lie back session with me! Limits are important. I will respect yours if you do the same for me.

I am TOP only, though I do like meeting other tops (with mutual respect). This is because we can exchange techniques and the reliable ones I can ask to help service my subs.

My cock is a thick, 6.5 ins, uncut repeater. My foreskin fully retracts and can take a finger but not docking. It is a looker! It bends left so is great for hitting g spots. I stay very hard for slim smooth shaved guys.

I can very rarely accom. During the summer the Hot Tub is always available and great fun. Guest are welcome to come in it but not cum in it.

My wife is NEVER involved, nor her clothes...even to discuss. I am bi but will not go into a multiple where ANY woman is present. TV's are not my thing either, however some discrete panties...OK :) A 'G string'...mmmm yes!

I have moderate body hair and some facial hair. That is my best teasing sex toy :)I absolutely love kissing.

I expect guys to be reliable and clean. Do not mess me about. Illegal drugs of any sort are a deal breaker.

Be nice, articulate, communicative, happy, clean, reliable, slim, horny, shaved and sub... and we shall get on very well!

My fave song is 'Ordinary World', my fave word is 'Moist' :)



64 years old, Bisexual

5'9"  175cm
Non smoker
Don't drink
Some tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 49 only
Won't meet smokers


Cannot accommodate
Can travel


1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bikers, Cubs, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Muscle, Naturism, Oral, Safe sex, Shaved, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking

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Verified Genuine Profile

*amalo (51), Man on 9 February 2024 by Meeting in person:
Fabulous session last night. Thank you!

*gen (47), Man on 20 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
If only there were more guys like Paul_j on this site. Met up for the most fantastic session that last for a good 2 hours where almost every part of my body was paid attention to. Who said two tops can't have fun. The guy goes to great lengths to ensure that his sexual partner is getting the most pleasure. Sexy body with the most kissable pair of lips I have ever kissed. Thank you

*gen (47), Man on 24 November 2019 by Meeting in person:
I couldn't think of a better way to spend a wet miserable Saturday afternoon than in the company of this wonderful gent with a bag full of tricks up his sleeve and who knows what to do to make it fun for both parties. A relaxed sensual three hour session where we were attached to each others naked bodies pretty much all the time . Paul_j has a fantastic body I that could play with all day. Thank you and I hope we can do it all over again whenever the opportunity presents itself.


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