Something real

Man in Portnoo, Donegal, Ireland

Joined: 11 months ago
Last on: 11 hours ago

Hey guys, I joined this forum with the intent to meet another guy to connect to. Over time I found myself changing my profile and making it more and more focused on sex. Not that I am looking for sex, rather I felt the need to be overly sexual to gain interest. Don’t get me wrong, I am a highly sexual person. However, this tends to be only with those I connect with. I’m not sure if this is just my experience, or if this is a common occurrence for many people. What I do know is that over time I have become more disheartened by the interactions I’ve been having. Maybe Fabswingers or Fabguys in not the place to be looking for something more than a shag, however where is the place to look for this? Any app you download seems to be highly sexualised and connection almost taboo. I am not saying I want a partner, what I am saying is I want connection. To me random detached sex with someone that has absolutely no interest in me as an individual does not lift me up. In fact I have come to find that over time it feels degrading, and colours my world in a negative way. I know that my name on this forum is MixBiDom, and that is Because I am Dominant by nature. However, this does not mean that I have no emotions. It also does not mean that I want to use others for my pleasure alone. No, I want a person that I can truly connect with on a level that allows for deep exploration of the self. If you have read this far and you also want something more than just hookups, even if you are married, bi, straight whatever, just reach out and let’s talk.

Thank you for reading.

DOMJ

46 years old, Bi-curious

6'2" 188cm
Chubby
Smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
More than 5 piercings
Size: Very Big
Role: Versatile
Black

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 50
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cruising, Cubs, Fur, Leather, Muscle, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Piercings, Rimming, Rubber, Safe sex, Shaved, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking

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