Newbie sub needs Dom for training and discipline

Man in Portsmouth, South East, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 days ago

Update: New Years resolutions

1) Lose weight

2) Lose hemorrhoids

3) Learn how to worship cock

4) Lose my anal cherry

5) Get spanked and caned

6) Get spitroasted

7) Try CMNM

8) Get back into naturism

9) Serve a group of Tops/Doms for an evening

Update: I'm going to concentrate on my real life goals of getting fit/losing weight, getting a decent job, owning my own house/not sharing a flat and learning new jobs skills. Meeting a Dom and learning to serve him is a strong fantasy and something I want to try but it's time I can ill afford at the moment. I'm trying to cut TV out of my life at the moment and restrict my entertainment to socialising with friends and family (no booze because of the diet and well, I don't really drink much anymore). Because I'm not looking for a relationship on here, just play, this is in the same vein and any meet would be an indulgence. It's not quite the same as mince pies which actively work against my goals but it's time I can ill afford until my work, studying and gym sessions are all on target.

At some point in 2017 I hope to have reached some of my other goals and be able to make time for more pleasurable things not to mention have my own place to accommodate people. Until then, I'm happy to chat to people but please don't be offended that I'm unlikely to meet anyone.

I'm a bi-curious English guy back living in southern Hampshire. I have some experience of BDSM and kink but have never played with another guy. I've fantasised about a dominant lady encouraging me to play with a man for a long time but have now started to think about submitting to Dominant men too. I think I'd like to move that into reality now.

I'm looking for people who are happy to take on a newbie and patient enough to give me the training I need. I can't stop thinking about worshipping cock so it would be excellent to meet a Dominant guy who would enjoy having me submit to them and teaching me to worship cock. I'd like to explore BDSM play as well.

I would rather meet gay or bisexual men with experience. I'm unlikely to meet curious people who haven't any verifications simply because I want someone to teach me and take control of me - not someone who is learning like myself.

I'd be happy to submit to a Dominant TV though I realise they're a little rare. I'd also be happy to be dressed up though I have no interest in it myself I do have a very strong interest in submitting to dominants, pleasing them and I get off on their enjoyment. So if it's not a hard limit for me, even if I don't directly enjoy an activity I love the fact that I'm pleasing my dominant.

I'd be interested in meeting a couple, whether that were two Dominant men or a Dom & his sub.

I identify as a switch. I find submission and the sexual side of BDSM erotic. I have a little experience with corporal punishment and would like to explore that some more. Particularly if I find a Dom who enjoys disciplining his subs.

At the moment I share a flat with a vanilla friend. I have the box room as a bedroom and have finally installed a single bed because there just wasn't enough room for the double that was in here. This means I have obvious problems accommodating - you might get two people in it but not three! Hopefully, I'll be able to find a new job at some point and earn enough for a flat on my own but that's the situation to date.

I'll be putting some more photos on shortly (though I'm not a great photographer) but I'm happy to share what private pics I have or take more if anyone wants. I enjoy a little exhibitionism so taking photos on demand would be interesting (only for Dom guys though). I would love to meet anyone who is a good photographer and willing to help me out with some better photos.

Happy to exchange messages with anyone and answer any questions so fire away if you want to chat. I love to chat and make new friends, even if it doesn't lead to anything. I really enjoy exchanging naughty messages with people who are as dirty minded as me and I try and respond to anyone who messages me.

If you wink at me and I don't respond, please message me. I don't notice it all the time and if you are hoping I'd respond I probably would if you messaged!

I have zero interest in impromptu meets or peremptory one line messages. Not only am I a bi-virgin whose a bit nervous and looking for his first experience with another man but it's just not my style to do things at short notice. I'd like to know a bit about the person whose going to be teaching me how to worship cock for my first time before I agree to a meet. I'll respond to as many people as I can regardless but these sorts of things will improve your chances.

Update: I'm not ready for anal just yet but really want to offer my anal virginity to a Dom when I am. Only if there's photos to remember it by though ;) For now I would like to try submitting to a Dominant man, receiving discipline and sucking cock. Other activities could be on the cards depending (photos for instance would be great.

Fantasies

1) I can't stop thinking about Priapic worship at the moment. I love the idea of attending my first service at the Temple of Priapus and being initiated by first taking the High Priest in my mouth and worshipping his phallus until his holy seed spills over my tongue. Then offering my mouth to the rest of the congregation so that they could act as the bearers of Priapus and receive worship on his behalf as well. Once they had all partaken of my oral worship and given me holy cummunion I would be placed on the altar and the High Priest would mount me to sanctify my anus to Priapus whereupon those of the congregation similarly strong of phallus would further consecrate my arse.

2) Sent to the Professor who says I need discipline, has me bend over his desk and drop my trousers and pants around my ankles then spanks or canes my plump bum until it's glowing pink. He then takes photos and has me spread my cheeks for some then strip completely for more. I cheekily ask if that was all my punishment and he gives me six whacks from a flogger and then tells me to choose between more of the same or another lesson. I take the easy option and say another lesson and he tells me to kneel before him and open my mouth for him so I can learn how to worship his cock. He takes photos throughout and once he's spent has me wank into my hand then swallow that too. Then he bends me over the desk and has me suck him back to life before coming around and taking my arse slow and deep.

3) I'm asked to do a nude sexy photo shoot and after some shots are taken I'm asked if I would be interested in having some bondage shots done. I readily agree and say I would be happy to be tied up or spanked but I haven't played with a guy before. He asks if I'd play the role of his submissive and be willing to learn how to serve and worship him for the photos and I agree. I'm spanked cuffed teased and taught the best use of my submissive mouth. The photos are great.

47 years old, Bi-curious

5'8" 173cm
Chubby
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Oral
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Rubber, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Uniform, Voyeurism, Webcam, Wanking

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