very experienced and extremely submissive bdsm subboy

Man in Rayleigh, South East, UK

... "Any really cruel sadists on the site? Aroused by seeing subs in pain and suffering?". Saturday

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Last on: 2 days ago

I have a very stressful job and work long hours. Bdsm and submitting as a prisoner or submissive or dehumanized object is a huge release for me and something I can’t do without.

I crave to be in situations I fear and that I consider horrible at the time they’re happening but after they turn me on immensely. During sessions I expect to dislike or hate the situation I’m in. I also expect the Dominant to understand that and be able to deal with that.

I realise it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

I crave to suffer harsh and brutally without mercy and put myself in situations that scare me but I know when it’s finished I can go home and watching the vid or pics back I’ll be extremely aroused.

Would like to build a rapport with a Dominant single couple or group who would be willing to meet and use me regularly, train me, enjoy my suffering and understand what it means to me.

Brutal BDSM, bondage, Domination, humiliation, dehumanizing, degrading, harsh discipline, beatings.

Also seeking other subs for social interaction.

Seeking very Dominant older male/TS/TV to use and train me on a regular basis. Someone local who will call upon me at different times for different things. Text me ordering me to be somewhere for a certain task then tell me to F off until I’m next needed .

Please do not message me asking if I want fun as this will be ignored. Looking for throat use and piss or bdsm only, am open to hear any scenarios people may have.

Hello im a male age 41 in essex/east london. I have been into bdsm for over 20 years. Im very submissive and seeking someone single or group or couple to train and use me on a regular basis. Ideally someone who is a sadist and enjoys seeing a sub crying and in uncomfortable pain.

Seeking someone safe and sane but also a brutal sadist. Anything from domestic beatings and humiliation to public and prison scenarios. I have served many Dominant women, couples and men over the years and have been treated quite severely but i do like the sensual/teasing side of bdsm if its allowed. Im very genuine and also happy to meet for my throat to be fucked.

Not much is off limits but i do have a couple which are impact play on my balls ie kicking or punching them, permenant marks left on me, unsafe sex, . I also dislike smoking.

I am an anal virgin so would need to be trained before fucking, although i have had strapons and dildos many times.

In vanilla life i have a busy job in the construction industry and enjoy reading movies and running. When i was in my early bdsm days i was trained to go barefoot 24/7 and live without shoes for 3 years by a Dominant Female and i have mostly kept this up since then and i live a mostly barefoot lifestyle, i was trained to believe that subs should not have footwear in any circumstance in public and private and i live this way outside of work because it humiliates and reminds me of my place.

Thank you Sir/Miss for reading. All messages respectfully replied to.

I am only seeking real time meetings nothing online other than discussing meetings. I am happy to travel all over the uk for the right people. A very Sadistic Male/Female Dominant couple is the totally ideal scenario but im open to anyone from tv/ts to single males and male couples.

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41 years old, Bisexual

5'8" 173cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Bottom
Caucasian (white)

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TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

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Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking, Tattoos, Skinheads, Shaved, Safe sex, S&M, Rubber, Rimming, Oral, Older guys, Naturism, Muscle, Leather, Group sex, Fur, Feet, Cubs, Boots, Bikers, Bears, Army, Anal, 1 on 1

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*asildonEssex2023 (49), Man on 23 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
We met up with ExtremelySub one evening and had a great time. He was blindfolded, semi naked, kneeling waiting for his mistress (me) and other male sub to enter. He was discreet and safe and had toys out ready for us to use together. He was compliant and followed instructions from his Domme very well. He worked well with the other male sub, even though he was completely blindfolded throughout and gave a 10/10 rimjob to him. His asshole was veeted nice and clean to be able to explore. We left him hanging wanting more with blue-balls. We will be returning for more dominating play in future.

very experienced and extremely submissive bdsm subboy

Man in Rayleigh, South East, UK

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