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Man in Bourne, East Midlands, UK

... "I've just given my man an anal orgasm". 57 minutes ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 8 minutes ago

A polite respectful sensual and considerate top here.

I'm happy to be a daddy to a youngster half my age but a more mature bloke can also be very attractive and I don't shy away from guys in their 50s or even 60+. But it is done on an individual basis, there needs to be mutual attraction and chemistry and as much as I'm sorry for those where the attraction seems to be a one-way street only, I can't be overly apologetic about it either. We all know what we like, we all have our preferences and we all should be grown-ups.

I'm into unhurried sensual sessions, foreplay and body contact, kissing sucking deepthroating licking rimming (I LOVE to rim a man's hole) wanking and fucking, also bum play and toys and for those who are into it.

Also love nipples n feet, socks n jocks, harnesses n cock rings etc. Admittedly I do like guys with at least some hair on them. Trimmed is good, shaved - only balls. Not a fan of shaven cocks, make me think of a) little boys who haven't grown their pubes yet or b) a dead chicken on a TESCO tray.

A word of clarification re: bb or safe: I'm happy to do both. I'm on PreP but should anyone feel safer with rubbers that's fine by me.

This may disappoint some on here but I should be very clear that I'm NOT into:

* ladies wear/ lacy panties, stockings, little numbers of all sorts, fems/CDs - it is an instant turn off for me and the "can go without them, man-only mode" option doesn't work for me once I get in my head that you are into that. I'm not judging you - each to their own and I wish you well but there will be no bread out of this flour;

* oral/wank only - I'm too anal oriented;

* I'm not saying "no" to beefy or stocky blokes but obesity is not my thing, sorry! (Again, the definition of the word may be very subjective and therefore debatable but there we are.)

* Arrogant people - an utterly unattractive quality that kills my mojo every single time without fail. Be down to earth, be polite and we will get on fine.

* Bored people. I do feel for you, a little bit, but otherwise I'm not interested. Sorry!

It is fair to say that each of those guys who left those verifications has also said to me they had not experienced man on man sex like that before. This is now the story of my life: listening to guys telling me how their previous sex partners lacked time, patience, imagination or the combo of all 3. I don't do quickies. I find them totally unsatisfying. If I am to meet a guy, I want it to be worthwhile, at least an hour and half of actual play, preferably even more. I am a very confident guy (in bed), I know what I'm doing and which buttons to press to make a guy feel good. Sorry - AMAZING (I don't do merely"good", not anymore). It pays off to be slow, sensual, patient, considerate and tactile, trying to read the guy, his body and his reactions, engaging with his brain, gaining his trust and seeing his lust build up to the point I can see him gagging for me. But even at that point I wouldn't just shove it in and pump away mad - most of you out there already had it shoved in, "pump pump squirt and bye" - leaving you, at least occasionally, unfulfilled and unsatisfied, if not physically then mentally. I care for the guys I meet and want them to enjoy the meet at least as much as I do. The difficulty arises if for whatever reasons we struggle to meet again and guys are then left chasing those sensations and the mental connection - sadly, often unsuccessfully. Somehow they all said they'd love to meet again and experience it all again - is it just the unusual banana-like shape of my dick..? Or that plus the fact that I offer that little extra which others seem to have shortage of and therefore can't offer..?

Any questions - please feel free to msg me and enquire within. Thanks!

P.S. Gentlemen / darlings / Possums. Having had 3 or so crap years, with illness and deaths (including my mum) in the family (not your problem, I know) I am slowly getting back to some normality. Also looking after my partner who has had a few health issues but also after his elderly parents. I work in hospitality but also tend to meet a handful of regulars rather than a new person each time. Due to all of this, my availability is restricted. I will reply to messages WHEN I CAN and any potential meets will be arranged at a time suitable for BOTH parties. I've had enough of the displays of sense of entitlement - I don't owe you anything so stop throwing your Teddy bears out of your prams and show some consideration, and if you truly cannot do just that then please go your merry way, I wish you all the very best but we are incompatible. I'm happy for you to block me, I seriously won't take offence. Look at it as if it were my loss. Thank you.

47 years old, Gay

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 20 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bareback, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cubs, Feet, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Older guys, Oral, Piercings, Rimming, Safe sex, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking

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*excess (59), Man on 29 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
A meeting with Matt isn't sex, it's an experience. Incredibly skilled with his hands, tongue and that beautiful cock. And a really nice guy too. My whole body was tingling with pleasure. I'm a weary but thoroughly satisfied man this evening.

*wensmark (59), Man on 16 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
After talking for sometime our diaries finally matched up this week and OMG so grateful. This guy is wonderful, hung, good looking and very skilful . He took his time preparing me and opening me up before having the best sex of my life. He fucked me for well over two hours in a wonderful range of positions (6 at the last count) including his sling. Lots of mirrors made sure i could seehim in action whatever the position. The sex was AMAZING. Cant wait for round 2.

*mooth sub piggy (34), Man on 6 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
Finally got to meet and was not disappointed what an amazing night . True friends and more hope I was up to your expectations.

*F fun (33), Man on 30 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
What can i say? This man is extremely experienced and knows exactly what he is doing. The meets have always been so sensual and hot, don’t pass up this opportunity guys !

*acksonLamb (52), Man on 24 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
I’ve just had the most wonderful meet with bastani47 who invited me to his beautiful home for some amazing sex. After I’d enjoyed a long rimming, he fucked me skilfully in several positions. And, wow, it felt so good to have his cock inside me! If you get the chance to meet him, don’t hesitate: he’s a good-looking, friendly guy and a great sexual partner. Thank you, mate!

*atti0304 (46), Man on 26 August 2024 by Meeting in person:
What can I say other than absolutely amazing meet with a really sexy and highly skilled man. We had chatted for quite some time before we were able to finally meet, but I am so glad we did. A 'Not to be missed' man who knows exactly how to leave you fully satisfied.. A+..

*ancelot99 (50), Man on 29 July 2024 by Meeting in person:
A true gent. Great chat throughout. I think all previous verifications cover it all…. Would definitely meet again. Amazing ;-)

*nw_fg (52), Man on 13 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
I met this chap earlier this year at his lovely house. Gay porn was playing on the huge TV in his room which set the mood. We got down to business and he fucks like a machine - great cock and style - made me come as he fucked me senseless. Really good meet.

*oe1236 (43), Man on 12 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
We’ve met a twice and I’m excited about the next meeting already. Bastiani47 if not only sexy, fit and just great to be around, but he’s a sensation in the bedroom. He has me squirming with pleasure. Every position an intense and different sensation. We fucked for hours and could have fucked for hours more. These slow sensual sessions are superb.

*toneyxxx (55), Man on 18 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Wow what a meet,this guy knows how to please a man..had me quivering and gave me one of the best orgasms …thank you xx

*ttyx1 (47), Man on 12 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
O.M.F.G!! This guy is exceptional. An experience like no other. If you're lucky enough to meet this guy, you're in for a treat! Treat him well!

*ibrochford (45), Man on 1 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
What can I say.This bloke is A star rated. Sensible bloke to worked on my hole and opened it up before he fucked me in different positions and my god my legs were shaking with excitement and just wanted him to carry on until I shot my thick load This guy is clean sensible and definitely owned my mind and gave him Myself for mutual enjoyment The intense connection allowed me to feel relaxed as he pounded me hard and very deep So pleased I met him Certainly a great bloke Thanks bud

*ockSlut! (47), Man on 25 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Have met this fantastic fella a few times over the years. Always leaves me exhausted, yet wanting more! A1 skills and knows exactly what to do!

*...jerkoff (53), Man on 11 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another fantastic meet. Was promised something special and boy did he deliver. Was stripped and blindfolded and made to do exactly what was asked. All manner of hot things were done. When the blindfold came off was in the sling and fingered, toyed and fucked like never before. By the end was begging for more... Amazing and can't wait for a repeat

*orny4Fun1985 (40), Man on 30 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
Have had a fantastic meet with this hot sexy guy. He’s kind, polite and one of the true ones on here! Fantastic kisser, great cock and he sure knows how to use it! The sex was fantastic! I really hope we find the time to meet again very soon. Thanks sexy!! x