Quality over quantity

Man in Bourne, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 11 hours ago

Hi Guys, a polite respectful and considerate top here. (Have a peek at my verifications - there aren't many but they do seem to highlight the above qualities.)

Open to all ages, age is just a number. Happy to be a daddy to a youngster half my age (not that many of them opt for that, their loss - they'll grow older sooner than they think and will experience the struggle of being found as "too old" - what a load of cr*p). A more mature bloke can also be very attractive and I don't shy away from guys in their 50s or even 60+. But it is done on an individual basis, there needs to be mutual attraction and chemistry and as much as I'm sorry for those where the attraction seems to be a one-way street only, I can't be overly apologetic about it either. We all know what we like, we all have our preferences and we all should be grown-ups.

I'm into unhurried sensual sessions, foreplay and body contact, kissing sucking deepthroating licking rimming (I LOVE to rim a man's hole) wanking and fucking, also bum play and toys and for those who are into it.

Not a fan of quickies, let's make it worthwhile.

Love to face-fuck a guy, preferably long n deep until his eyes water and he gags on my tool (as part of foreplay) ;)

Also love nipples n feet, socks n jocks, harnesses n cock rings etc. Admittedly I do like guys with at least some hair on them. Trimmed is good, shaved - only balls. Not a fan of shaven cocks, make me think of a) little boys who haven't grown their pubes yet or b) a dead chicken on a TESCO tray. But then it's just a preference, not set in stone.

A word of clarification re: bb or safe: I'm happy to do both. I'm on PreP but should anyone feel safer with rubbers that's fine by me.

This may disappoint some/many on here but I should be very clear that I'm NOT into:

* ladies wear/ lacy panties, stockings, little numbers of all sorts, fems/CDs - it is an instant turn off for me and the "can go without them, man-only mode" option doesn't work for me once I get in my head that you are into that. I'm not judging you - each to their own and I wish you well but there will be no bread out of this flour;

* oral/wank only - I'm too anal oriented. It ticks my boxes and turns me on big time seeing you gagging for me, your eyes rolling, your toes curled. No amount of sucking or wanking will give you the intensity you'll get from my banana-shaped tool.

* I'm not saying no to beefy or stocky blokes but obesity is not my thing, sorry! (Again, the definition of the word may be very subjective and therefore debatable but there we are.)

* Arrogant people - an utterly unattractive quality that kills my mojo every single time without fail. Be down to earth, be polite and we will get on fine.

* Bored people. It never ceases to amaze me, the amount and the whole concept of people who so openly advertise themselves as "bored" - what are they expecting from the proclamation of their boredom...? - indeed, one must be terribly bored to put it on a gay app/website but hey ho. I do feel for you, a little bit, but otherwise I'm not interested. Sorry!

It is fair to say that each of those guys who left those verifications has also said to me they had not experienced man on man sex like that before. This is now the story of my life: listening to guys telling me how their previous sex partners lacked time, patience, imagination or the combo of all 3. I don't do quickies. I find them totally unsatisfying. If I am to meet a guy, I want at least an hour and half of actual play, preferably even more. I am a very confident bloke (I mean in bed), I know what I'm doing and which buttons to press to make a guy feel good. Sorry - AMAZING (I don't do merely"good", not anymore). It pays off to be slow, sensual, considerate, trying to read the guy, his body and his reactions, engaging with his brain, gaining his trust and seeing his lust build up to the point I can see him gagging for me. But even at that point I wouldn't just shove it in and pump away mad - most of you out there already had it shoved in, "pump pump squirt and bye" - leaving you, at least occasionally, unfulfilled and unsatisfied, if not physically then mentally. I care for the guys I meet and want them to enjoy the meet at least as much as I do. The difficulty arises if for whatever reasons we struggle to meet again and guys are then left chasing those sensations and the mental connection - sadly, often unsuccessfully. Somehow they all said they'd love to meet again and experience it all again - is it just the unusual banana-like shape of my dick..? Or that plus the fact that I offer that little extra which others seem to have shortage of and therefore can't offer..?

Any questions - please feel free to msg me and enquire within. Thanks!

P.S. Gentlemen / darlings / Possums. One thing seems to need clarification. I work in a family business in hospitality, which is not an easy life. I'm also looking after the family seniors (my parents and the in-laws). This combo does indeed restrict my availability. But please show some consideration and try and refrain from messaging me to tell me that you think I am a timewaster on the basis that I did not meet you when you wanted to (usually either now or asap), especially if you live 2-3 counties away from me. You know nothing about me so stay classy please and just block me, I seriously won't take offence. Thank you.

45 years old, Gay

5'10" 178cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 20 to 65
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bareback, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cubs, Feet, Footy gear, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Older guys, Oral, Rimming, Safe sex, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Wanking

Verified Genuine Profile

*nw_fg (50), Man on 13 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
I met this chap earlier this year at his lovely house. Gay porn was playing on the huge TV in his room which set the mood. We got down to business and he fucks like a machine - great cock and style - made me come as he fucked me senseless. Really good meet.

*oe1236 (42), Man on 12 April 2023 by Meeting in person:
We’ve met a twice and I’m excited about the next meeting already. Bastiani47 if not only sexy, fit and just great to be around, but he’s a sensation in the bedroom. He has me squirming with pleasure. Every position an intense and different sensation. We fucked for hours and could have fucked for hours more. These slow sensual sessions are superb.

*toneyxxx (54), Man on 18 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Wow what a meet,this guy knows how to please a man..had me quivering and gave me one of the best orgasms …thank you xx

*ttyx1 (46), Man on 12 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
O.M.F.G!! This guy is exceptional. An experience like no other. If you're lucky enough to meet this guy, you're in for a treat! Treat him well!

*ibrochford (43), Man on 1 October 2021 by Meeting in person:
What can I say.This bloke is A star rated. Sensible bloke to worked on my hole and opened it up before he fucked me in different positions and my god my legs were shaking with excitement and just wanted him to carry on until I shot my thick load This guy is clean sensible and definitely owned my mind and gave him Myself for mutual enjoyment The intense connection allowed me to feel relaxed as he pounded me hard and very deep So pleased I met him Certainly a great bloke Thanks bud

*ockslut! (45), Man on 25 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Have met this fantastic fella a few times over the years. Always leaves me exhausted, yet wanting more! A1 skills and knows exactly what to do!

*...jerkoff (51), Man on 11 August 2021 by Meeting in person:
Another fantastic meet. Was promised something special and boy did he deliver. Was stripped and blindfolded and made to do exactly what was asked. All manner of hot things were done. When the blindfold came off was in the sling and fingered, toyed and fucked like never before. By the end was begging for more... Amazing and can't wait for a repeat

*orny4Fun1985 (38), Man on 30 December 2019 by Meeting in person:
Have had a fantastic meet with this hot sexy guy. He’s kind, polite and one of the true ones on here! Fantastic kisser, great cock and he sure knows how to use it! The sex was fantastic! I really hope we find the time to meet again very soon. Thanks sexy!! x