I still haven’t unloaded 40 days now

Man in Rotherham, East Midlands, UK

... "Feeling a little fruity today. Calm confidence, playful energy, and open to exploring chemistry with a fit, curious straight man.". Friday

Joined: 3 months ago
Last on: 8 minutes ago

NOT FOR SKIM-READERS.

IMPORTANT — PLEASE READ FIRST

I don’t drive. At all.

Not sometimes. Not “if you really need.” Not “just this once.”

Asking me to pick you up is like asking a fish to drive a bus — entertaining, but absolutely not happening.

(If I owned a flying carpet, life would be very different. Sadly, I don’t.)

WELCOME

Let’s get this clear from the start:

Everything I offer is completely complimentary.

No fees.

No pressure.

No expectations.

This is about comfort, connection, and mutual respect.

I receive a high volume of messages, but I still reply to everyone.

Even if we’re not a match, you’ll always get a respectful response. Courtesy matters.

Everything here is adult, consensual, discreet, and within platform guidelines.

WHO I AM

I’m Ste — grounded, calm, and quietly confident.

I don’t do chaos.

I don’t do games.

I don’t need to be loud to be felt.

I value presence, ease, and genuine energy over performance.

I’m a former rugby player with a strong, solid, athletic build from years of training. I move with intention, patience, and steady focus.

I live with narcolepsy. Sleep can be unpredictable at times, but it doesn’t affect the quality of time I give — it’s simply part of my life.

Something a little different about me:

I have musical eidetic memory with HSAM-like recall linked to sound. It doesn’t change what I do — it just means I read detail and response very instinctively.

WHAT I OFFER

My space is quiet, private, and designed to help you switch off — physically and mentally.

Time together is:

• unhurried

• responsive to your body

• grounded in real knowledge

• calm and intentional

• guided by awareness rather than rush

Nothing is generic.

Nothing is rushed

Your body sets the tone — I follow it, not override it.

QUALIFICATIONS & EXPERIENCE

Everything I do is supported by genuine academic training and clinical understanding.

• BSc (Hons) Sports Science

• BTEC Level 6 Diploma in Sports Massage & Soft Tissue Therapy

• BSc (Hons) Nursing or BMidwif (Hons) Midwifery

• MSc Nursing

In practice, this means:

• strong anatomical knowledge

• understanding how bodies respond under touch

• pressure and pace tailored specifically to you

• a professional, grounded, safe environment

This is informed, intentional work — not guesswork.

WHO I CONNECT WITH

I work with gay and bisexual men where there’s mutual attraction and ease.

I naturally connect best with:

• athletic

• muscular

• well-built

• average physiques

Attraction matters — on both sides.

Respect is a given, always.

Clean, comfortable, and considerate energy is important.

If you’re unsure how to prepare properly, I’ll guide you calmly and discreetly.

ENERGY & CONNECTION

I enjoy sensual build-up, curiosity, and controlled intensity.

I’m attentive before I’m hands-on.

Reaction comes before escalation.

Some sessions remain therapeutic.

Some carry a deeper sexual charge.

Nothing is assumed.

Everything unfolds naturally when chemistry is real.

A NOTE ON REPLIES

I’m thoughtful in how I communicate.

I may take a little longer to reply because I consider what I’m writing and how it lands.

I’d rather respond with clarity and intention than rush something careless.

If I’m engaging, it’s because I’m genuinely present.

DISCLOSURE & EXPECTATIONS

Chemistry can’t be predicted — you only know once you meet.

Please arrive:

• clean

• respectful

• relaxed

• open-minded

If you’re unsure about preparation, including hygiene, I’ll guide you professionally.

No awkwardness. No judgement.

Everything here runs on clarity, comfort, and consent.

INTERESTS & PREFERENCES

I’m open-minded and comfortable across a wide range of experiences, where there is mutual consent and clear communication.

• one-to-one connection

• group or shared-space dynamics

• voyeur-friendly environments (consensual and discreet)

• role-play and power-exchange dynamics

• naturism / nude beaches

• jock straps and athletic gear

• cock rings

• sensory play (e.g. blindfolds)

• oral-focused intimacy

• anal play and rimming (well-prepared and consent-led)

• toys and accessories

• spanking / S&M (discussed in advance)

• club or social sexual environments

• mixed-energy dynamics (MNF), when respectful and clearly agreed

Safety, communication, and comfort always come first.

Nothing is rushed. Nothing is assumed. Alignment matters.

nawtymassuase

41 years old, Gay

6'1" 185cm
Average
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Very Big
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 48 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bareback, Bikers, Boots, Cruising, Feet, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Muscle, Naturism, Oral, Rimming, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking

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*ucker95 (30), Man on 2 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Lovely guy, fun meet

*bee (43), Man on 28 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine guy in his lovely home for a social. Great conversation and cute dog. Hopefully get down to some fun next time when we have more time.

*illywood37 (40), Man on 27 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this sexy bloke for a massage which quickly turned in to a horny session. Really nice guy with a sexy hairy chest and amazing dancing hips ;)

*irth99 (40), Man on 26 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
I met Ste at his home today for a professional massage His home is very clean very tidy and hygienic Ste is welcoming friendly professional, genuine and respectful throughout our meeting he is easy to talk to good sense of humour and that I recommend anybody to meet him as long as they meet his criteria Str8 Fit and Hung he definitely knows how to massage the body perfectly And I’ll definitely be seeing him again

*avem30 (52), Man on 21 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy a while back I’m not going into detail but can’t wait to be invited back

*ornybiguy20 (36), Man on 19 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met this non pushy understanding guy really down earth and knows what he wants has nice big cock to play with also knows how give you good pounding can't wait meet again

*arriedBiBottom (35), Man on 14 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Been to his house a fewtimes… My impression: Genuine guy— , Respectful, polite, and honest - with very good sense of humor… and most oof all can hold a conversation —very clean and really good company.