Bear for bears, chubbies or just admirers really.

Man in Ashton-under-lyne, North West, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 35 minutes ago

Edit Dec 2021: Oh great, new COVID just dropped. Not going to meet for a little while, until everyone I know and care about has had a booster jab.

Like larger guys myself, but also like to be appreciated by guys who aren't so large. I don't meet often, but I'd like to change that. Interested in meeting trans people of all types.

I'm versatile and switchy; generally that means I have a specific dynamic with each person I see. I can be quite dom with some, quite sub with others.

I'm in an open relationship, and I live with my partner. They know I play, we don't play together. I tend not to invite someone I've not met before into my home if my partner's going to be there.

Want to set some rules, but I've been told I've been a bit stern. I'll try and be a bit more friendly.

I'm not looking for a completely anonymous experience. If you send me a message and there's not much in it, and then I look at your profile and you haven't said much, and there's no pictures, I'll most likely not reply. Likewise, if the first I hear from you is a suggestion of an immediate meet, I'll probably not go for that. You don't have to romance me, but an introduction is nice :)

I'm happy to friend someone if they've also got some private pics, or if they've got public face pics, so they can see mine. I don't want to put my face pics out there for just everyone to see, but I'm happy to share them with people who also have some. And I'll certainly send one along with my first message if I'm making contact.

I'm quite unlikely to meet people whose face I haven't seen, but if I've otherwise got to know you quite well, it might happen. I understand that people sometimes don't like their photos getting out into the wild, and might have reasons not to.

If I fab your picture, that likely just means I think you're hot. If I wink as well, I'm probably going you'll wink back and something will happen. If I fab, but don't wink, that usually means you've indicated you aren't into large guys, don't like beards, or our distance/accom preferences don't match. But you're still hot and I wanted you to know that :)

Other than that, hit me up if you'd like to talk about a meet?

Gareth

51 years old, Bisexual

6'0" 183cm
Chubby
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Pretty Big
Role: Versatile
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men TV/TS
Aged from 25 to 70
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Bears, Cubs, Kissing, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Rimming, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Tattoos, Voyeurism, Wanking

Verified Genuine Profile

*ABear (43), Man on 10 September 2014 by Meeting in person:
handsome, friendly, down to earth guy - enjoyed our meet looking forward to more!

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