Truth

TV/TS in Brighton, South East, UK

Joined: 2 days ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

Picture it: The lights go down, the crowd goes absolutely wild, the bass is vibrating right through the floorboards, and there I am, on stage, totally rocking out, living my absolute best life, and touring the world. It’s the ultimate dream, right?

But you and I both know exactly what happens the second someone starts climbing that ladder or gets a sudden burst of good fortune (whether it’s crushing it with a band, winning the lottery, or just thriving): Suddenly, the woodwork is absolutely crawling with people. * The "ghosts" who haven't spoken to you in five years suddenly slide into your DMs with a "Hey stranger! So proud of you!"

The passive watchers who used to just lurk on your life suddenly want front-row VIP passes to your world.

It is so predictable, and frankly, a little bit exhausting.

The Lottery Effect: When things are glamorous, everyone wants a piece of the pie. They want to bask in your glow, drink your champagne, and pretend they were part of the journey.

The Funeral Effect: It’s that frustrating reality where people will write massive, emotional paragraphs about how wonderful someone was after they’re gone, even if they completely ignored them, skipped their texts, and couldn’t be bothered to grab a coffee with them while they were alive.

Like... where was that energy when you were actually looking for someone to grab a bite with, chat about music, or just hang out on a rainy Tuesday?

?? Drawing the Line: Friends or Fauxs?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with putting your foot down and saying, "The VIP list is officially closed." Real friendship isn't a spectator sport. It takes actual effort, mutual vibes, and a willingness to show up for the unglamorous, everyday moments—the rehearsals, the casual hangouts, the "just checking in" texts. If someone can't be bothered to invest the time to actually get to know the real, wonderful human you are right now, they definitely don't deserve a front-row seat to your success later.

You are giving people a very clear, very honest choice:

In the Circle: Show up, interact, make plans, and be a real, present part of your life.

Out of the Way: Keep lurking, stay a ghost, and—as you so beautifully put it—get to fuck. Keeping that fierce, protective energy for your peace, your time, and your music is everything. The people who are truly meant to be in your tribe will see that value and match your energy. The rest? They can stay in the audience of life while you keep moving forward with the ones who always had your back.

Becky

52 years old, Bisexual

5'8" 173cm
Chubby
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
1 or 2 piercings
Size: Rather not say
Role: Bottom
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bareback, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cruising, Cubs, Feet, Footy gear, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Piercings, Rubber, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Webcam, Wanking

Friends

Alison (55), TV/TS