Carmarthen based / Bristol for work

Man in Carmarthen/bristol, Wales, UK   TickOn mobile site

... "In Bristol tonight and alone. Where is the fun in that?". 21 hours ago

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 1 hour ago

May 2022 update:

I am more selfish these days. Things have changed a lot I think, and although I am still the old friendly, loving, kind me; the more experienced in kink I become; the clearer I feel I am, on the men I want to meet!

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Voyeur

97% Non-monogamist

95% Exhibitionist

71% Degrader

67% Master/Mistress

58% Sadist

54% Rigger

44% Primal (Hunter)

44% Experimentalist

43% Vanilla

37% Owner

20% Daddy/Mommy

12% Dominant

10% Rope bunny

9% Ageplayer

7% Switch

6% Submissive

0% Masochist

0% Boy/Girl

0% Brat

0% Pet

0% Primal (Prey)

0% Degradee

0% Sl@v3

0% Brat tamer


I’m looking for pleasers first and foremost. I don’t care what you call yours3lf any more; bondsperson, pet, human, sub, or bottom - the only real thing that matters is that you are able to please.

Are you able to lick! Yes I said lick! Licking is under rated and vital. The best sex is with a pleaser that can lick. It sorts the wheat from the chaff. Lickers are true! They are loyal, and they know their place. They understand. Balls need licking. Tits need licking. Feet need licking. I love to be rimmed. Worship me.

Pain. Yes there it is! Can you take pressure. Tied bound. Captive. One finger, five, a, a crop.

Suckle; like a piggy! On my cock, tits. Whether hard and erect or flaccid. The pleaser doesn’t care. They suckle cos they live to be attached. They are just good that way.

And finally tribute. Pleasers understand tribute. The special ones get it! From afar, close at my side. They know that as a pleaser the beer, the cuppa, the recognition, the title, the Sir, Master, Milord, makes me want to draw them near, grow a bond and offer my heart and form a bond, and create belonging. Only a few make it. But they mean the world to me.

So now if that isn’t for you then here is the old profile. It’s also true and also me!

The old profile:

Do you have what it takes! Let me rate your 'to completion' skills. In the process I will go out of my way to give you a good time.

To all you guys who love to suck a cock to completion with the love and attention it deserves - you are the champs of the game. Nothing better than really enthusiastic chaps that love to please and be pleasured. I'm looking for sexy sub types that love to be used but don't just leave it all to their 'tops'. I love passion! But seldom into pain! I'm best with slightly psychological power stuff. Blindfold and light ropes with a few games are fun and horny.

Light bondage is a real turn on but please understand, only in the context of trust which may take time to build up.

I do like non sub/dom sex too! so if you just fancy a session without any role play, then I'm also up for that as well.

This could sound hardcore - I'm really not. I'm a normal bloke who likes fun and role play here and there.

Be under no illusions, I am tubby, and I have a bushy beard.

I'm not into CD or TV, it actually is a turn off not a turn on.

I'm on Prep.


For those who approach me for a submission, please lets be clear on terms to avoid disappointment and in order to save time.

A submissive in my view is someone who enjoys pleasuring: submitting their will and pleasure to that of the top.It may involve being fucked but not necessarily, it does involve being instructed. Being submissive isn't lying there and doing nothing at all, but it could do if asked.

Wanting rough sex is also not the same as being a sub. I can provide some rough sex if asked, but please don't say you are a sub to get rough sex from me, as that's misleading. I might provide chastisement to a sub, or even provide rough sex, but it would be on my terms.

In order to have a great sub/bondsperson master relationship that involves all the best bits (light bondage, kink, role play, and other) time and trust need to be involved. It won't all happen on the first meeting. Please be realistic in your expectations. For very good reasons (like the law) it is important to have trust as a basis for role play situations.

If the chemistry is right it will be an ongoing arrangement

That all being said: i love to snog, suck, rim, and do just about everything, but I am not versatile. Please be clean and no phimosis please (look it up if you don't know what it is). Hit me up, I love a good chat, and strangely, I've always found shy chaps a bit of a turn on. I'm always up for making friends. And I adore sex so am usually up for it, if I have the time.

2.4.2018 ; A few guys have wanted me to rate their skills so if you want me to rate you then let me know.


56 years old, Gay

5'9"  175cm
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 65
Will meet smokers


Can accommodate
Can travel


Wanking, Voyeurism, Tattoos, Skinheads, Shaved, S&M, Rimming, Piercings, Oral, Naturism, Leather, Kissing, Group sex, Fur, Feet, Cubs, Cruising, Bareback, Anal, 1 on 1

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*ee Davies (45), Man on 23 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met Master today didn't know what was in store for me. But was treated to an excellent bdsm session tied collared and chained in order to serve Masters needs hopefully will have the honour of more sessions x

*eyland 777 (57), Man on 20 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Had a great meeting with Master. Great bondage skills. Completely dominated me and made sure I obeyed him fully. Can't wait for our next meet. If you like bdsm do not miss out on master.

*estrex61 (61), Man on 28 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
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*eeppurplediver (63), Man on 9 May 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely guy this morning, enjoyed a passionate time on my bed, super sexy, and hope to continue our encounters.

*phill (25), Man on 14 December 2021 by Meeting in person:
We used to met all the time back in the day and where do I start with this man, always polite and patient, with an amazing cock that just begs to be sucked and an intelligent mind, the cum and the conversation flowed so easily, hopefully we’ll meet again if he will take me . Meet if you get a chance to

*hipTed (59), Man on 22 July 2021 by Meeting in person:
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*ethro773 (48), Man on 22 May 2021 by Meeting in person:
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*iphilip (63), Man on 28 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
I had a great time again with this guy at the Bristol party Great fun, very friendly and certainly knows how to have a good time - definitely pressed ALL my buttons! Thanks again!

*aybi4me (62), Man on 17 October 2018 by Meeting in person:
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*rallum (56), Man on 20 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
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*ersatile masculine (49), Man on 15 August 2018 by Meeting in person:
Met this genuine last night. Very easy to arrange only 2 messages and when I arrived he was very welcoming and he gave me a great long kiss which got is both relaxed and very horny. We were naked in no time and his cock is nice and thick. By the way he is a lovely hairy bear. Fabulous session with this very sensual guy. Will be back for more and more and more. Thanks.

*lim btm (55), Man on 7 June 2018 by Meeting in person:
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*umlover 13 (58), Man on 19 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
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*objockey60 (62), Man on 8 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
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*uckyousenseless (38), Man on 6 April 2018 by Meeting in person:
Thanks for the meet. Was great cock to suck with a lovely load to boot.

*ike58-Clevedon (59), Man on 17 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met T this afternoon, he is a cuddly bear of a man, He snogs really well even with his 'busy' full beard, he has a lovely personality and a nice cock and big balls and is very sexy. I won't say what we got up to though he did empty those lovely nuts, would certainly like to meet again, thanks M xxxxxx

*ottominbrum (42), Man on 26 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
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*BC4CockandAss (50), Man on 25 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
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*hris_500 (57), Man on 9 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met Tarlock at his place. Really nice chap, can hold a decent conversation and makes a good cup of tea. Then we headed upstairs, for a couple of hours (yes, really) of fun. Really good evening. I'm looking forwards to next time! :-)

*ottom4BBCandBWC (50), Man on 30 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
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