Side / Service Top Into Chubby Guys

Man in Congleton, North West, UK

Joined: 3 weeks ago
Last on: 5 days ago

I’m partnered and in an open relationship. My preference is larger build guys, bears, chubs, etc. Demisexual, Acesflux and easy going. That means I tend to need to feel and build a connection with someone first and the Acesflux side means there are times Im just not sexually motivated but still friendly. Im not a right now kind of guy. Predominantly, I am a Side and like those activities but also have a Service Top streak in me that means I will like to do the things that make you feel good. Ive been told I have a Soft Dom energy, I think that means I like the sensual and tactile side and pleasure is both for me and others too. Daddy seems to fit well. Id say Im exploring a slightly switchy side possibly that if you have the connection and are able to catch me right I can switch between that Dom side or into a more hidden slightly submissive service top side. Id say Im a little more coercible in that state to allow you to utilise me. I have to have built up a lot of trust for my head to allow this side to come out and not sure its actually there hence why its exploratory. Its definitely rare and I would certainly say its not a true sense of submission. I still carry a lot of control. Heard switches have more fun and exploration is always fun ?? Im a freelance photographer & retoucher. I love sport and go to the gym a lot, used to play rugby and now I like to race and watch motorsports. I also like to do and watch creative things. Looking for people to chat to, hopefully we create friendships if it goes well, maybe even FWB in time.

40 years old, Gay

5'10" 178cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Oral
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Men
Aged from 18 to 99
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Bikers, Cubs, Kissing, Fur, Leather, Rubber, Uniform, Footy gear, Bears, Cruising

Friends

J (32), Man