Dom guy looking for fun

Man in Stockton, North East, UK

Joined: 6 months ago
Last on: 14 hours ago

Experienced Dom top (married) looking for fun that I can't get in my marriage??

I have been an active dom and into d/s dynamics and s&m for the past 15 years, so have a fair bit of experience. I enjoy pushing boundaries whilst ensuring my sub partner feels safe. I am really into sensory deprivation (blindfolding etc); firm control but not necessarily hard all the time; bondage; spanking; orgasm control/denial; sensual touch play; watersports/pee play...and more, I am sure. I adapt to what I know my sub enjoys and what limits they have. I love offering intimate massages too. They are a lot of fun.

I am not currently showing a pfp for privacy reasons but will share when messaging.

I will add that I consider myself to be a smart, professional type person. I only add this at the end because it sounds quite pretentious but if you have got this far, then I thought I would give you a sense of who would be turning up.

Andy

38 years old, Bi-curious

6'1" 185cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
Some tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 99
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

Tattoos, Shaved, Safe sex, S&M, Rimming, Oral, Anal, 1 on 1

Verified Genuine Profile

*ille Derobee (53), TV/TS on 3 January 2026 by Meeting in person:
I always think the purpose of verifications is to assist both the subject and those perusing with future meets. So, perusers, please read Andy’s profile as it will give you a very accurate idea what this lovely, genuine man is about. D/s relationships and S&M encounters require 3 key things, since they are in essence about power exchange. This means trust is essential. That means communication and honesty. Do communicate and do be honest because Andy will take it on board. You should tell him what you like, what you don’t, what you know and what you don’t. He will take this all into account. He will respect your red lines, as a Dom should. As a sub, your job is to communicate honestly all the information the Dom might need. Open up to him, you can trust his discretion, intelligence and judgement. Andy’s profile is accurate, but there are more things to be said, I think, that he leaves off because he is not a braggart. We met in a bar in public. He was warm, welcoming and confident. He put me at ease straight away. He is rather good looking and was stylishly dressed. As he says in his profile, he has a quiet dominance about him, rather than hard, in your face. You just kind of do the things he wants and are glad you did. In terms of S&M and sexual acts, I can say he is good at spanking. He knows good spanking is not about just whacking away, it is sensual, varied and as much about the tease and anticipation as the impact. He is good with rope too. That sent tingles down my spine. And his penis is lovely, not small and not too big, just nicely above average and very suckable too. A lovely encounter I very much hope to repeat and deepen, circumstances permitting. I think I’m ever so slightly smitten! xx

*weetSmellingSam (35), TV/TS on 9 December 2025 by Meeting in person:
Enjoyed a social meet with him and really enjoyed it. We connected and talked for a while and I really enjoyed his company. He is also very handsome and I love his beard. Love the shirt and the way he smelt. Looking forward to getting to know him and being friends. Highly recommended gentleman for meets and great times!

*ubbottomts8 (41), Man on 22 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
My first proper experience with a Dom. Was very respectful of my do’s and Don’ts. Really enjoyed it massively turned me on. Next time will be even better