London MF Couple looking for fems/twinkk/trans people

Man in London, Greater London, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 3 weeks ago

Not looking for a quick meet, No racists into "Race play" or "BBC" (I'm a human not a dildo with legs), looking only for feminine twinks/boys under 30 & trans people!

Kinky, happily madly in love Cisgender MF Pansexual, Sapiosexual, Demisexual couple looking to have fun with a unicorn (a third person) either one time or more (one step at a time eh?) as well as meet new like-minded friends. No pressure, let's just talk and go with the flow. =)

There is potential to meet individually but that really depends on the person, not keen on meeting monogamous people as many that want to meet individually don't understand or respect our desire for exploration and even kink shame, judge or rebuke our lifestyle. =/

Please understand that as Demisexuals (needing an emotional connection before sex) and Sapiosexuals (needing an intellectual connection before sex), I am/we are not looking for quck meets and bunk ups let alone any ONS (one night stand), so if that is all you are looking for then please move on. -_-

We're both vers (I am a dom vers & she is a sub-vers, let us know how you like it) ??

Open to ALL genders (m/f/t/q/x/?) so step right up, worst we can say is no ? (consent is key)...

Our preferences and those we are initially attracted to (but not limited to as everyone is beautiful):

Thick, curvy, chubby, sub/dom, small petite people, redheads, androgyny, queer folkx, Trans Folkx, Bi/Pan people, NB people, Sapiosexuals, Demisexuals, twinks, feminine men, CD's, feminity, African, Caribbean, Latinx & Asian people

The queen will make the final decisions as I will be exploring more than her for the time being!

My favourite bedroom acts and are:

- Sucking pussy and bussy (and having my bussy eaten)

- Sucking dick and being sucked

- Sensual licking

- Light BDSM (recieveing only from Black people, giving to anyone) ??

- Light impact play & rough sex??

- Sensual massage, foreplay and oil

- Cumming and bukkake

- Squirting & enemas

- Swallowing squirt and cum

- CNC (following ALOT of discussion and trust building)

- Light fem dom (again recieveing only from Black women)

- Biting, nails and scratching

- threesomes, foursomes, orgies and moresomes ??

Our Hard limits are:

- & piss

- vomiting

- cutting & blood

- piercing

- humiliation

- Daddy/Parent play

- Baby play/ABDL

- R*pe play

- physical abuse (e.g.: big purple bruises)

- pay pigs / paying tribute just to talk to you (pack your ego away my money isn't for you)

- blood

- Hardcore BDSM (especially with non-black people) ??

- You show any signs of racism, colourism, sexism, misogyny, misogynoir, ableism, homophobia and transphobia

- Raceplay & fetishizing (which brings me to my next point lol)...

On the BBC, Raceplay, fettishisation & objectification of black men on Fetlife and Kink

Finally, if you are following any BBC page, into raceplay, love "BBC" please DO NOT talk to me (unless you are willing to learn why but at this point you're better off reading why articles), the term is incredibly racist (you have the Internet, Google/Bing/Ecosia/DuckDuckGo it) and the fact the majority of people don't get this is worrying (and reminds me why I should stick to black people), I am not your fetish! -_-

Just because other black people use the term or racially fetishize themselves, it doesn't mean it's ok (it's like justifying police murder because they're police, it's still wrong), if you say this to me I'm blocking you instantly. I am actually deciding to actively look for predominantly black people due to the sheer amount of fetishizing on here.

Just because this is Fab it doesn't mean you have the right to dehumanise people!

FYI: I have seen alot of white fragility and defensiveness, especially from white women, in regards to me calling out their racial fettishisation and objectification of black men (as well as their membership and association of such groups), in their defensiveness they point at my love of Thick/Curvy and East Asain people, one white woman was the last to despereately attempt to "call me out" recently to which I responded:

"Your response shows your white fragility (research the term) by comparing your attachment to the term BBC and my preference for "BBW" and Asian people, there is a massive difference liking a specific size of person (which is common in many non-western nations, especially in African/the Caribbean) or someone from a specific culture (I/we love Japanese, Chinese and Korean culture and embed ourselves in it so it's only right to be attracted to Asian people). Remember BBW stands for Big Beautiful Women (the term isn't actually on my profile), which doesn't fettishize any race or ethnicity nor does it have any historical baggage, please tell me the culture affiliated around the "BBC/Big Black Cocks" (that doesn't revolve around fettishation, racism or "positive" discrimination)..."

It's safe to say after I said this she had nothing else to say to me, ghosted the conversation and is still ignorantly fettishizing black men to this day. Can you see why I prefer meeting, talking and being kinky with black people to Non-black people, all the fun of kink with none of the white fragility, white defensiveness, gaslighting or delfection!??

Last admin bits for those who are wanting to connect:

Hidden my face for work, privacy and from family, I'll happily share more pics upon matching upon your request I do have a face pic up actually for friends-only, that being said...

- I only accept friend requests from people I know or have spoken to for a while on here but feel free to follow, be warned, you will be denied if I don’t know you!

- With all due respect but unless you plan to move to London or visit London regularly (or are really special) I do not have a desire to connect to those that live miles away (e.g.: Glasgow, Cardiff, Liverpool, Manchester, etc) as it will be really expensive, impractical and time consuming to connect when there are many amazing people close to me (will make exceptions for those that are within an hour from London like Brighton, St Albans, Reading and Watford).

- No matter how much you say nice things to me, like my content and comment on my profile, if I see you're into race play (or objectifying any group) I will be immediately turned off, I am human not your sex toy!

Value check:

PS: If you don't agree with the following please click away because we probably won't get along (happy to talk and educate if you are open minded):

#BurnThePatriarchy

#BlackLivesMatter

#EqualityForAll

#MensMentalHealthMatters

#TransWomenAreWomen

#TransMenAreMen

#ProtectBlackWomen

#ProtectTransPeople

If you got this far thank you for your diligence, to prove to me you read this please put in your first message or subject line "Anti-BBC", thank you.

Best of luck & hope to hear from you soon, byeee

Team JD

29 years old, Bi-curious

5'11" 180cm
Athletic
Non smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Pretty Big
Role: Versatile
Black

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men TV/TS
Aged from 18 to 30
Won't meet smokers

Meeting

Cannot accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Bareback, Fur, Kissing, Oral, Rimming, S&M, Safe sex, Wanking

London MF Couple looking for fems/twinkk/trans people

Man in London, Greater London, UK

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