Midlands Daytime gatherings for bi/gay/trans/t-girls/group fun.

Man in Midlands, East Midlands, UK

... "LAST CHANCE TO BOOK YOUR PLACE AT THE XY CLUB THIS MORNING FROM 11AM TILL 4PM AT THE LIFESTYLE LODGE HOUSE (DE15) NEAR BRETBY. SEE MY PROFILE FOR INFO". 8 hours ago

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Thanks for looking at my profile for the new XY Club, exclusively for Bisexual/Gay men, Twinks, Bears, Otters, Cubs, Queens, Gym Bunnies, Femboys, Subs, Transvestites, Transexuals and Cross dressers.

DATES FOR YOUR DIARY:-

* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 22nd Oct 11am till 4pm.

* TABU - Chapter 6: Sat 25th Oct 8pm till 1.30am.

* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 5th Nov 11am till 4pm.

* XY CLUB Daytime: Wed 19th Nov 11am till 4pm.

* TABU - Chapter 7 Sat 29th Nov. 8pm till 1.30am.

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Set in a spacious private home near Burton-on-Trent, The XYC is a new midweek daytime event designed for like-minded, verified guests here on Fab Guys who wish to meet, socialise, mingle, and, if they choose too, play—within a safe, discreet, and non-judgmental environment.

My large four-bedroom house and gardens, also know as THE LIFESTYLE LODGE, provide a welcoming, intimate atmosphere where you can truly be yourself.

Discretion and privacy are always paramount.

Any guests wishing to attend any of our events will need to have a MINIMUM OF 2 RESENT MEET VERIFICATIONS or have attended any of our previous parties.

A pre-contribution, ideally, would be required by new guests to attend the events due to to many no-shows, Message for more details.

Our parties will always welcome new people who wish to discover more, and who are looking to become part of the lifestyle scene.

KEY DETAILS:

* Held every other Wednesday, 11:00 AM – 4:00 PM

* All guests confirmed & verified.

* Contribution: Message for details.

* No membership required (Conditions apply)

* Bring your own alcohol (soft drinks and mixers available for a contribution)

* Snacks provided

* Bathroom changing area available.

* Photo/video/content options available.

* Storage of clothes, wigs, make up available for regular guests.

* Arrange your personal meets via The XY Club

PHOTO/VIDEO/CONTENT SHOOTS:

Looking to create high-quality, discreet photos or videos without the stress of doing it yourself?

The XY Club at The Lifestyle Lodge—an LGBTQI+ safe haven and inclusive sanctuary, we offer a relaxed and supportive environment where your photos can be taken for you, directly on your own device.

Perfect for use on FabGuys, while ensuring your privacy is fully respected.

For further details, please feel free to get in touch.

ABOUT YOUR HOST:

I am an experienced lifestyle host with over a decade of creating, running, and hosting parties and events in clubs, venues, and private homes under the banner of The Playgrounds Lifestyle Parties & Events.

Established more than ten years ago, The Playgrounds Parties & Events/The XY Club is dedicated to delivering high-quality, safe, and enjoyable adult gatherings designed for like-minded, vetted guests who wish to meet, mingle, and celebrate within the lifestyle community.

At every event, we strive to foster a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere where guests feel secure, respected, and free to be themselves without judgment. Participation is always optional, and our no-pressure-to-play policy ensures everyone can enjoy the experience at their own pace.

We actively promote a safe sex policy at all of our parties and events.

THE LIFESTYLE LODGE (South Derbyshire)

This large secluded 4 bed house discreetly hidden away from any neighbours or prying eyes ensuring your safety and privacy and comfortably hosting up to 50 to 60 guests. A large discreet garden ensures any summer fun can extend outside.

All of our parties and events are designed to provide a safe, secure, discreet, and welcoming environment where you can relax, be yourself without judgment, and connect with like-minded people from the lifestyle community.

DRINKS:

The Lifestyle Lodge parties are bring your own booze. Soft/mixer drinks available from us for a small contribution.

HOTELS:

There are several reasonably priced hotels in the surrounding area, one is very close to The Lifestyle Lodge house.

DRESS CODE:

We always encourage guests to dress smart and sexy.

No trainers, t-shirts, blue jeans, sportswear, or hoodies.

If no effort is made to dress appropriately then this means you could be turned away.

Personal hygiene is paramount within the lifestyle so please ensure this when attending.

PARTY FEATURES at THE LIFESTYLE LODGE

* Bring Your Own Alcohol.

* No membership required.

* All guests verified.

* 3 themed playrooms.

* The Black & White Room.

* The Blue Room.

* The Red Boudoir.

* The Backlash Bar.

* Hot tub area.

* 2 x toilet.

* Bathroom.

* 6 hrs of party fun.

* 1 x Open fire lounge.

* Dance/social area.

* Buffet.

* BBQs (Spring/Summer).

* Music.

* Large garden areas.

* Covered smoking area.

* Nearest hotel 50 yards away.

SOME BASIC RULES.

The XY Club/The Playgrounds operate a NO means NO policy, in a no pressure, no obligation environment. We expect all our guests to ALWAYS display a basic lifestyle etiquette, along with a high level of personal hygiene within the house.

We promote a safe sex policy at all our parties & events.

Strictly no use of mobile phones within the house, also no pictures/filming unless permission is given.

No smoking in any areas of the house, only in designated smoking areas.

Failure to comply with The XY Club/ The Playgrounds house rules will result in you being told to leave.

The XY Club/ Playgrounds have a zero tolerance drugs policy, any person found using, distributing, or taking drugs will be removed from the houses. This will also affect your attendance at any future XY Club/Playgrounds events.

Future Meets and Events

Meet at my place on Wednesday 22 October 2025 in East Midlands: THE LIFESTYLE LODGE (Burton-on-Trent)
At this meet looking for: M MM TV/TS
A DAYTIME EVENT FOR MALES AND TRANS GUESTS TO MEET, MIX & INDULGE IN SOME MIDWEEK EROTIC FUN IN A DISCREET, SECLUDED, HOUSE LOCATION. MESSAGE ME FOR INFO NOW.

Meet at my place on Wednesday 22 October 2025 in West Midlands: THE LIFESTYLE LODGE (Burton-on-Trent)
At this meet looking for: M MM TV/TS
A DAYTIME EVENT FOR MALES AND TRANS GUESTS TO MEET, MIX & INDULGE IN SOME MIDWEEK EROTIC FUN IN A DISCREET, SECLUDED, HOUSE LOCATION. MESSAGE ME FOR INFO NOW. X.

View meet listings, add yours at the Meets & Events pages.

RodXY

56 years old, Bisexual

5'10" 178cm
Chubby
Smoker
Social drinker
No tattoos
No piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Men TV/TS
Aged from 23 to 70
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Can travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Bears, Cubs, Group sex, Kissing, Older guys, Oral, Rimming, Safe sex, Voyeurism

Verified Genuine Profile

*tr8leics (48), TV/TS on 15 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great host at one of his events x keeps everyone safe whilst the fun goes on x

*elly_Bell (64), TV/TS on 11 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met Rod again at the XY event at the lifestyle lodge and he was the perfect host and madw aure that i and everyone else was comfortable and sufficient to mention the that there was also plenty of naughty action going on in the rooms xx

*girlemma (51), TV/TS on 10 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
The XY club at the Lifestyle Lodge really delivered again. Girls and guys everywhere on the beds, fun being had by everyone. A great venue and terrific host, look forward to next time.

*arja (49), TV/TS on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had an amazing time at this week's X&Y event hosted by Rod. Always a fun and sexy time and love being part of the event.Dont miss out on these events as they are fantastic Love Tarja xx

*ogi72 (53), Man on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Got the chance to attend one of RodXYs daytime XY events. Rod is a great event host and runs a very inclusive event in a discreet and safe space, which is well organised to cater for the lifestyle it serves. Lovely clean premises, good welcome and safe environment. Deserves more attendees than present on this occasion but will build up as word spreads. Look forward to a return visit.

*madoda1 (76), Man on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
My 1st time at the XY club so I was a bit apprehensive but I needn’t have worried , everyone was dry friendly and the ‘girls’ were more than welcoming . I’m looking forward to a return visit

*ikebilover (58), Man on 9 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Attend my first XY club event yesterday, Rod was a very nice host in a lovely large home. Plenty of guys and T-Girls, all very welcoming and friendly, was well looked after by a couple of guys do definitely an event I’d recommend attending if lucky to get an invitation !

*laire chameleon (60), TV/TS on 8 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
I was very lucky to get an invite to Rod's XY party today, and I'm so so glad I went. Rod is an unbelievable host who makes you feel very special and I'm planning to go again in a fortnight if invited. The XY party is a fantastic event with many guys and Tgirls attending, and the experience I had was out of this world and can't wait for the next one, I think I may have found my 2nd home, hopefully. I would thoroughly recommend Rod's XY party, it's the best. Claire ?? ??

*ike oxohard (63), Man on 8 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Paid a visit to XY club at the Lifestyle Lodge today and really enjoyed the laid back friendly atmosphere. Great venue , great host and nice people . Rod is a lovely guy who is really easy to talk to and does everything he can to maintain the feeling of being amongst friends. Will definitely be returning for TABU.

*ant_fun_today (53), Man on 8 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
I chatted on here with Rod and met him at his ClubXY event today. He answered any questions I had on here and made me feel at ease about attending so I did and glad I did. It was a lot of fun and I had a great time and would definitely goto his event(s) again. Thanks very much Rod.

*ardnhorny69 (56), Man on 8 October 2025 by Meeting in person:
Attended the club today - amazing few hours with some sexy guys and cd's, had an amazing 4some - so horny. Rod very welcoming and friendly, will certainly make it a regular visit if I'm able to make it

*rayon (38), Man on 30 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
It was a great pleasant experience to attend XY at the Lifestyle Lodge where people gathered to have a great time and be themselves this is definitely a place to be free and I look forward to helping out and attending future XY events and I would encourage others to attend and experience XY for themselves also I would like to say the venue is fantastic and the host exceptionally friendly welcoming and professional and go out of there way to do anything to make the guest comfortable and at ease. I personally have been excepted by the hosts and feel like they are my family and im also embraced as part of the team through attending TABU also which is another event held at the Lifestyle lodge which i throughly enjoy and people love and where i have met lots of fantastic people some who have become my friends looking forward to the future filled with hope when it comes to The Playgrounds and the scene .

*ensualnsafe (54), Man on 29 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
OMG, the best experience for me so far, Rod is really amazing as a person and an excellent host one can ever think of. If anyone gets the privilege of acceptance for his sex parties, he should consider himself lucky. Besides this, he is handsome man and having a body and bulges to explore. Highly recommended ????. Looking forward to see you again and again.

*ert999 (51), Man on 28 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Got invited to the XY Club. First time attending and was made to feel very welcome in a relaxed home environment. Rod was very friendly and easy to chat to . Enjoyed my time there and definitely be back for more

*OTTOM1234 (65), Man on 28 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Another brilliant event put on by Rod. First time I've been on a Saturday night. A Tabu event. Well attended and some very nice people attended ,met some new faces and plenty of fun. Well done ,and a big thankyou to Rod and Jackie ,you have got a very good event. Hope I can attend a few more of your events in the future. Both the XY club and the Tabu events are very recommended.

*OTTOM1234 (65), Man on 26 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
The XY club again this week ,as usual Rod did a marvelous job. It's hard work ,especially when guys don't turn up ,even after they have paid. Come on guys if you want these venues then look after the hosts. It's just not fair to say your coming and then not turn up. You only need to message and let him know you can't make it. You all know what they say!!!! If you don't use it you will loose it. Not many guys would go to the trouble that Rod does to put these events on. I'm going to try ,Rod's Taboo event this Saturday ,will let you all know how it goes.

*girlemma (51), TV/TS on 26 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I was lucky enough to be invited to the XY party at The Lifestyle Lodge by Rod. A truly fabulous concept, gorgeous privately located and safe house, lots of naughty tgirls, all dressed to impress just waiting for a raft of admirers to lead them astray. Lots of group fun, individual liaisons all topped by an unforgettable finale, a great day all round, and I look forward to the next one. If you are fortunate to get an invite (you can also ask for one lol) then I recommend you accept as this is an event both tgirls and their admirers will benefit from and enjoy immensely xxx

*eesha (67), TV/TS on 26 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I had another lovely time at Rods' XY club on 24/9. Thanks so much Rod xxx It really is a super venue and safe for tgurls to play with admirers and with good facilities. This meet wasn't as busy as it should hv been...but it was still loadsa fun. The boys were making out with one another and so were the tgurls! Great fun. C'mon all you top guys..and tgurls..come along to the XY and enjoy! If you wanna chat about it, msg me. Kisses from Leesha xx

*omis71 (51), Man on 25 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure to attend one of Rods events. The perfect host and thank you for creating a safe, warm, and inclusive environment. Perfect host.

*anii (60), TV/TS on 25 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for my first invite to the XY Club, my first visit to any club, what can I say, it was very nice being in the middle of some fun. Great host, definitely looking forward to attending again for more sexy fun and socialising with other girls and guys. Danii xx

*irkin (69), Man on 24 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Thank you for allowing me to attend, enjoyed both the physical as well as the chatting interaction, nice to see a familiar face there. Sorry couldn't stay longer.

*landerby (52), Man on 13 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have been to one of Rods events and looking forward to not only posing in his garden but also attending more parties!

*taffstvdebbie (59), TV/TS on 13 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I had the absolute pleasure of meeting Rod at an event he hosted at his delightful venue ,extremely clean and with a selection of rooms and areas available for guys and t girls to have discreet or not so discreet fun!!. Rod is very amenable,approachable and a very gracious host and the events are well attended offering a discreet location for erotic pleasure! Thank you Rod for your time,effort and commitment,it is appreciated. Debbie xxxxxxxx

*umslut64 (61), Man on 9 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have now been to two of the XY events and have to say its a great venue with the most welcoming host, very well organised and friendly events with lots of fun going on. All right on my doorstep, what more can you ask for.

*oodman52 (71), Man on 8 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
He made me most welcome in a very nice private house the party was in full swing when i arrived an interesting and eventfull good time and hope i get invited again

*hil mcrack (49), Man on 8 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Genuine guy great host not to be missed out on

*OTTOM1234 (65), Man on 7 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Been to 2 of Rod's XY parties. Good atmosphere, and Rod is the perfect host. Lovely place for them to be held. I'm sure I will attend more in the future ,as long as I'm invited. Keep it up Rod ,your doing a very good job, it's not easy to organise these events. Please guy treat this guy with respect ,and if your into these sort of parties ,there worth attending. Xxx John.

*ockluver (64), Man on 7 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Went to one of thev XY party’s and had a fun time. Great host , discrete, well organised and I look forward to going again ??

*ennyhotlegs (59), TV/TS on 6 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met Rod at his first party. It was sensational. Lots of TV's and CD's as well as admirerers. I will be back. Brilliant fun

*ansfieldwoody (64), Man on 6 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have been two a couple of Rods events. Always gets a great mix of people and leads to a few hours of great fun! Keep Up the good work - looking forward to many more visits

*i fun guy 200 (58), Man on 5 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great meets at Rods lovely girls very friendly bunch Don’t miss out x

*elly_Bell (64), TV/TS on 5 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met Rod after he invited me to XY event to look around. We chatted for ages after a conducted tour of the venue. I will be returning soon and planning to make the best , naughty use of the facilities.xx

*weetlittlething84 (40), TV/TS on 4 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I have been to Rods on a few accessions. He is a very warm and friendly host. Iv had an amazing time every time with lots of spicy fun. On a more personal level he's allot of fun one on one and a very heavy cummer.

*rewpeaish (58), Man on 2 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
I had the good fortune to be invited to the XY club on a Wednesday daytime gathering, my first visit won't be my last. What a great venue. Rod runs the event really well, you're made to feel welcome, a very relaxed and open environment for all variety attendees to enjoy themselves in a clean, spacious house and garden with multiple options for fun. Thanks Rod and look forward to attending again.

*enatra (59), TV/TS on 2 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
Rod is a lovely guy I've attended one of his events very welcoming and I was extremely well looked after lovely guy can't recommend enough x

*i-Jeff (74), Man on 2 September 2025 by Meeting in person:
A great way to spend a few hours in total safety, playing with like-minded guys in this lovely man's home. If you're privileged to get an invitation to one of his events, don't hesitate to accept, you won't regret it. Looking forward to a future visit xx 29 August 2025

*arja (49), TV/TS on 31 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Met rod at xy house party. Great host and very friendly made me feel right at home. Cannot wait for my next visit xx

*ammie69 (66), TV/TS on 31 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
I visited the XY club last week my first time dressed among a group , Rod is very welcoming host made me comfortable from the moment he opened the door . The spacious house and gardens are perfect for relaxing or playing with Tgirls and guys . Sammie the half T XXXXX

*eesha (67), TV/TS on 31 August 2025 by Meeting in person:
Great to see Rod on here with his reviewed XY Club venture in the background!! Gurls (and top guys); Rod runs some of the very best club meet days for us in a super country house with great facilities, all very safe for tgurls and for women to play beside and with guys. Highly recommended and watch this profile! Kisses from Leesha xx