DOM TOP GUY SEEKING REGULAR SUB GUYS, BE GENUINE PLEASE....

Man in Ng2 Meadows Area Nottingham, East Midlands, UK

Joined: over a year ago
Last on: 7 hours ago

I require FACE PICS please. NO excuses, NO exceptions. Send a picture with your first message please or it merely gets binned and deleted. If you have no face picture then do NOT message me as I would have zero interest. I need to know who I am meeting, I need to be able to see who I am allowing into my home.

Be clean please, no cheesy cocks or filthy arses!! There is no bigger turn off and I personally find it quite repulsive.

I tend to host in NG2, The Meadows area of Nottingham. I am Derek here or Master, which ever name you feel comfortable with. If you are based miles away from Nottingham then there is no point in contacting me please as the probability of us meeting is possibly zero.

TOP only guy, I fuck as top, I as top, I am NEVER ever the bottom guy and I never want to be.

Experienced TOP FISTER, over 15 years experience of guys, I take my time, I am prepared to go at YOUR pace, it is not a race, nor is it a competition, FISTING can be pretty awesome done in the right circumstances. If you are looking to explore, experiment, push limits and boundaries then may be for you. Guys often envisage as being very painful, it is not if done properly and given time and the necessary lubrication, it can be immensely pleasurable and many guys are very happy to endure the journey!! Don't knock it until you have tried it. is NOT an essential requirement to meeting and it is not a deal breaker.

I do NOT and will NOT use gloves to guys. I with bare hands. I am not out to hurt or to damage anyone, I take total responsibility for anyone who I am using. I have been meeting some regular guys for meets for over 15 years and I have verifications on my profile to clarify this.

Few limits with no set agenda, just see what the moment brings, It is neither a race nor a competition. I am open minded and broad minded.

TRUST is very important, TRUST forms a very big part of any S&M, BDSM relationship, TRUST is paramount, there needs to be a good solid connection too and much compatibility.

We need to get on, we need to gel, we need to connect, there has got to be a genuine CONNECTION for it to work. S&M, BDSM has nothing to do with good looks, physique, cock size or any amount of beauty, it all depends on a good connection and trust!

Men on here appear pretty hung up about cock size, trust me, size is not everything, if you believe that it is then you are pretty shallow!!

PLEASE NOTE: I only meet guys who KISS AND SNOG, Kissing is an absolute must!! If you do not kiss/ snog then it just is not going to happen. I use kissing and snogging as part of my foreplay and this is very important to me.

Sex is just not sex without KISSING OR SNOGGING. I enjoy the sensual side of sex too, I like to be tactile, I enjoy foreplay, exploring one another's bodies etc......

Guys will happily rim a dirty, filthy arse yet will not kiss, that amazes me at times!!! LOL

If you use po**ers then you will supply your own, I am NOT a pharmacy here. I myself use Po**ers but it does not necessarily mean that you have to.

TOTAL and ABSOLUTE discretion given to Bisexual guys.

I will never break that promise, I am not on here to out anyone or to destroy anyone's relationship or marriage, my word is my bond!!

Business men, Professional guys, uniformed workers including emergency services workers all welcome!!

I need to SPEAK on the phone before any agreed meet, NO exceptions, I will DEMAND to speak to you or it goes nowhere.

I will require a MOBILE NUMBER to prove that you are totally genuine. If you are not happy sharing your mobile number then do NOT message me and block my account. I need to know who I am allowing into my home!! I use WhatsApp here too for discretionary purposes and I have more pictures to send via this app if necessary.

I am friendly and approachable, caring, considerate, very easy going, NON PUSHY, happy to discuss your needs and requirements, none judgemental, I try never to judge anyone.

I do not suffer fools gladly though.

NOT looking for love or a relationship!! I already have one of those!!

My relationship is 25 years and still counting.

He knows I have an account on this site.

NOT really seeking one off meets, little can be achieved in just one meet.

I much prefer REGULAR guys to build trust and rapport. TRUST is gained over a period of time whilst getting to know a person and by seeing how they perform etc. You will appear keen and committed and be very happy in your role.

NOT seeking TV/TG/TS/CD. NO offence, just not my thing!!!

I enjoy guys in Leather or Rubber too.

I enjoy urethral dilation together with urethral sounding. I am happy to introduce guys to SOUNDING if any guys are keen to explore this.

I like to take charge and take the lead as it were, I enjoy full control, YOU will merely comply, serve, please, submit and obey, YOU will follow orders and commands.

I try never to take this site seriously, so many dreamers and fake people on here!! Guys tell you one thing and then do the exact opposite, they make promises that they know they cannot stick too, they promise to meet knowing full well that they have no intention of ever doing so!! Guys sit on this site 24/7 and never meet a soul, the words "keyboard Wankers" comes to mind!!

Guys are so full of empty promises on this site, the number of time wasters on here is phenomenal.

I am also happy to SHAVE guys, PUBIC SHAVING that is. I have been shaving guys for many years now and I am experienced.

NOT seeking time wasters, odd-bods, weirdo's, fruit loops, game players or village Idiots, fakes, keyboard wankers, Escorts, Rent Boys. Fantasists and those living in a Walter Mitty existence will not be tolerated so do not even consider approaching me!!

If you are a member of the ignorant brigade or you have an attitude problem then kindly jog on please. If you create a profile only to delete it one hour later then do not approach me as I would simply view you as a time waster!!

Be comfortable in your own skin, this is the 21st. Century for Gods sake.

Most of all be GENUINE and HONEST please, I can deal with honesty, sugar coated bull shit I cannot!!! I am honest and genuine here, not that honesty accounts for anything on this site.

I am NOT on here for confrontation or arguments.

If you have nothing nice to say then say nothing. I prefer to avoid toxic people!! Life is too short for drama.

R.I.P. Jon. Died 19th. July 2022. Greatly missed and never ever forgotten. So many memories of times shared together. The world is a far poorer place without you in it Jon. I feel very privileged and incredibly blessed to have known you.

Derek

60 years old, Gay

5'11" 180cm
Average
Non smoker
Don't drink
No tattoos
1 or 2 piercings
Size: Average
Role: Top
Caucasian (white)

Looking For

Couples (MM) Men
Aged from 18 to 65 only
Will meet smokers

Meeting

Can accommodate
Cannot travel

Interests

1 on 1, Anal, Army, Bears, Bikers, Boots, Cubs, Footy gear, Fur, Group sex, Kissing, Leather, Muscle, Naturism, Older guys, Oral, Piercings, Rimming, Rubber, S&M, Safe sex, Shaved, Skinheads, Tattoos, Uniform, Voyeurism, Wanking

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*enuinemale4sex (49), Man on 15 April 2024 by Webcam:
I have spoken to Master on the phone and via messages. He comes across as genuine and understanding. He knows what he wants and won't take fools lightly, I am under no illusion of what Master wants to do to me or what he want from me. A genuine Top.

*ackb (57), Man on 8 April 2024 by Webcam:
I have been chatting with Master for a long time and I have to say that he is the most genuine and likeable guy I have ever come across on this site. He knows exactly how to press the right buttons with me to turn me into a submissive slut. He is a highly experienced dominant Master and I cannot wait to meet him in the flesh so to speak, so that I can serve Master in whatever way he deems appropriate for me.

*ravelsALot (46), Man on 8 December 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this Master yesterday, both in leather harnesses, masterfully opened my arse up , me and even managed to get two open plan hands in mostly (opened me up and stretched me open with both hands). Great session and takes care of you during it! Great meet! More kink to come

*IGBOTTOMSUB (49), Man on 24 October 2023 by Meeting in person:
Meet this lovely master very welcoming guy he showed me how to be a proper sub and looking forward to having a group session next time to get used like a good Obedient sub should xxxg

*airyVersBEAR (48), Man on 18 September 2023 by Meeting in person:
This Gent is one of the best guys I have met and placed my trust in. He is honest, trustworthy and he cares. I have met him quite a few times now and know him as Master. He is friendly and never goes beyond limits. He is a fantastic kisser, tactile is in his name and dominance is his game. I have gained an amazing teacher in my journey as a sub, a friend and someone I can trust. He is consistent and inspiring and knows how to take a sub to the next level

*dsubS66 (57), TV/TS on 3 June 2023 by Meeting in person:
Met this Master 1st june at his lovely home. A few hours of exploring each others needs. He was gentle and caring but assertive. I look forward to being with him soon and further exploring my limits x

*otts50fun (58), Man on 21 May 2023 by Meeting in person:
Another gr8 meet very patient teacher but very naughty easy to arrange deffo meeting again

*otts50fun (58), Man on 5 March 2023 by Meeting in person:
Known Derek for years great chap I had always dabbled with the idea if being Derek was up for the job gentle and patient was fantastic feeling loved every minute till next time

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 28 February 2023 by Meeting in person:
What a great meeting I had with Domin8tor for 2023, he came round to mine where he treated his sub to a good hard stretching my hole, I know he enjoyed using me hopefully next time we meet others will join in.

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 11 November 2022 by Meeting in person:
Great meet again with Master Derek, had a car meet with him the other night, he soon had me bent over and stretched my ass wide, I dropped him off and left with a smile and a gapeing hole. Hopefully will meet again soon for more.

*3redimp (52), Man on 8 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
2nd time I’ve met this horny guy , certainly knows his way around a man. A relaxed and I rushed meet where it’s fair to say I was pleasured internally and externally ;) . Will be back for more

*dsubS66 (57), TV/TS on 3 September 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met with Derek again a couple of days ago. A very satisfying meeting it was too. After a brief catch up I was put completely at ease before I was introduced to the joys of . Derek was very patient and almost succeeded in giving me his whole hand. Hopefully next time... I left with a wide smile on my face and genuinely looking forward to another meeting. I won't leave it so long next time. Thanks Derek x

*dsubS66 (57), TV/TS on 30 August 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek in the past after a few messages and a call to make sure we were both comfortable. I was invited to his lovely home and no sooner was I through the door, I was instructed to strip and was collared with a "sla ve" collar to make sure I knew what my role was to be until master removed it. What followed was a very enjoyable afternoon. Derek delivered everything he promised and more. He respected my boundaries( not that I have many) and knew just how far to expand my horizons. He is one of the most genuine people on this site. He doesn't suffer fools and fantasists. If you are lucky enough to be invited to meet him, don't hesitate, grab the opportunity with both hands. I consider him an excellent Master and more importantly a friend. Hope to meet again soon.

*ravelsALot (46), Man on 5 July 2022 by Meeting in person:
Had a great second meeting today. All kink- amazing session which after a long time resulted in me being 3-4” past the wrist- felt amazing and came so hard! Great Dom guy who listens to your needs and uses you how he wants! A must meet touardos amongst you! Looked after me when I had a head rush post action!

*adman20 (33), Man on 26 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Great shave

*exyexarmy (53), Man on 25 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
We chat, we love, we respect x my darling man knows the ins and outs of gay filth x he has collared me and made me his prize, I LOVE him xxx my arse is his to farm out to all and sundry x if your on the fence, jump off and call him when told, enjoy his work and maybe he will let you fill his Queen xxx if he says yes I will visit you xxx

*ravelsALot (46), Man on 16 June 2022 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely but Dom guy tonight. A good kinky session was undertaken leading to me being and sounding rods of various sizes being used on me. Several hours later I was very satisfied. Thank you and looking forward to future meets

*dicktion (57), Man on 7 April 2022 by Webcam:
Spoke to master today I hope to meet and be fucked and by master very soon

*otbot72 (51), Man on 12 March 2022 by Webcam:
I have spoken to this fine gentleman. Very genuine and really nice to speak too. I have a good friend and master here. Treat with respect

*amston (56), Man on 28 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
I have known Derek for many years but every time we meet he teaches me something new. He is a decent, honest guy that dominates within your boundaries which he never goes over. He is a great Master for Subs, but more importantly he is a very good friend. Never an unenjoyable moment with Derek.

*ooper23 (49), Man on 22 September 2021 by Meeting in person:
Lovely meeting with Master, really knows how to handle an obedient sub xx

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 27 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
Another great meet with Derek, each and every time gets better whether kissing or sucking but now he's and fucking me,I'm hoping we will meet for more very soon

*ockSeekers (56), Couple (MM) on 22 June 2019 by Meeting in person:
I've met with Derek many times over the years the most recent being as part of a very sexy and erotic threesome. Derek is a very friendly, genuine and honest guy. He enjoys lots of sex and is always eager for the guys who are lucky enough to be invited to his house, to have a great time. If you're clean. Polite and respectful you'll have a great time with Derek.

*arksguy (59), Man on 8 April 2019 by Meeting in person:
Met this Master briefly at his lovely home. He was gentle and caring as we explored each others needs. I look forward to being with him soon and further exploring my limits x

*ownsman (66), Man on 13 February 2019 by Meeting in person:
Lovely man in pleasant surroundings, did what ut said on the tin , introduced me to new pleasures and a new friend, if you want to rcamine hour submisdive sidr a very hood place to start, thanks Master xx

*ieldy (53), Man on 2 January 2019 by Meeting in person:
Great meeting in person, lovely man who made me feel very comfortable, and soon had me as hard as a rock and spurting like a fountain. Will definitely be meeting again soon

*van1 (61), Man on 12 September 2018 by Meeting in person:
Great guy, one of the real people on here.. word is his bond. He'll tick all your boxes and more. Absolute genuine guy and really nice human and I for one am happy to have met him on a good few occasions.. AAA*

*ottsswinger (36), Man on 7 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Meet TheDomin8tor several times before , alway love meeting and has a good session one not to be missed

*ven66 (57), Man on 2 May 2018 by Meeting in person:
Finally met Derek at his home this week. Really lovely chatty guy who switches to his dom role instantly. Another guy turned up and I was treated to a threesome and a mouthful of cum. I didn't give Derek much notice for the meet but next time If I can, Derek has told me he can arrange more guys and for me to explore my submissive side. I can't wait!!

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 4 December 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met my Master for an afternoon session on arriving I stripped and went into his bedroom with my Masters friend after he had used me I lay on his bed naked and waited for my Master to enter he kissed,throttled and grabbed my balls before fucking me hard,I left stretched.

*ottsswinger (36), Man on 28 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Have meet several times, always an amazing fun

*amston (56), Man on 1 November 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek again after many years. He is a genuine and caring guy that takes his time to ensure you are left feeling completely satisfied. If you are looking for a good training Master Derek is the man for you.

*ircumsized (59), Man on 13 October 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek Friday 13th .no I am not superstitious what a lovely guy lovely home And surroundings not going to kiss and tell but spent a memorable afternoon with him I met him as a first time submissive and boy did he school me well did stuff I never dreamt I could Do with more to come on our next meeting, lovely guy what this site is about don't mess him about

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 29 September 2017 by Meeting in person:
Another fun meet with my Master he treated me as a sub plenty of kissing sucking and then he gave my ass a hard fucking.

*ob M (65), Man on 27 September 2017 by Meeting in person:
I met Derek a few weeks ago. It was a truly memorable experience. He is someone wih whom it is easy to talk and have fun. He knows not just what he wants but also what his parner desires. He brought some of my innermost kinks to the fore. An unforgettable afternoon and I look forward to meeting him again.

*ornymark (56), Man on 26 August 2017 by Meeting in person:
Very VERY nice and enjoyable first, of many more, meetings, I hope. Was made to feel very welcome and relaxed. A really nice genuine person. Derek is the type of person this site is about; honest, genuine, practical and sincere. If you get chance to meet him you will not be disappointed. Can't wait till next time x

*1rocky (61), Man on 8 July 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met this guy last week very horny guy had me naked in is bed sucking his lovely cock then milked me to a great orgasms Love to meet him again

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 24 June 2017 by Meeting in person:
Another great session with Derek ,he treats his slut with a bit of kissing then breath control I sat on his cock and rode him then I was on all fours where he stretched my ass wide and gave me a hard . I would definitely recommend this gent he sure know how to fuck and.

*hris_coup (56), Man on 5 May 2017 by Meeting in person:
Met master at his home. It was my first time as a sub. He was very patient and explored my limits in a considerate way while remaining in control. Had a nice relaxed chat after and discussed how future meets might go and I'm really looking forward to it. Give him a try, you won't be sorry.

*umf71 (55), Man on 6 January 2017 by Meeting in person:
Great,great guy. Extremely naughty sexually but also good company..very funny. Thanks D, see you soon.

*cock1 (54), Man on 24 September 2016 by Meeting in person:
Had the pleasure of meeting Master this week.... Glad I did as he is one of the genuine, reliable and around decent people on here and what this site should be about, no messing about, I was soon stripped and on all fours in collar and leather jock, master skilfully introduced me to the delicious world of cbt, if u are bored with the usual, trust this master to open up your mind to new things. You will definitely not regret it.

*ogg. (59), Man on 17 August 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek recently, he is a lovely guy as well as being genuinely dom. He was very understanding, taking time to introduce me to S&M play....definitely a safe but demanding Master; if that's what you are looking for Derek is the one for you. Really enjoyed meeting him.

*ub789 (62), Man on 3 August 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met this lovely man recently, he is assertive, kind, considerate. Just how a dom should be. He is clearly very experienced.

*unguyderby (54), Man on 10 July 2016 by Meeting in person:
Very well mannered guy he is always ready to chat and understands everyones limits and wishes.

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 5 July 2016 by Meeting in person:
Another great meet with Derek , he used me well stretched me in more way than one and gave me the fucking I deserved, will be meeting again soon .

*ave42fun (52), Man on 20 February 2016 by Meeting in person:
Met Wednesday quick meet nice home made me feel welcome put me at ease. Does what it says on tin x

*illingwhore (53), Man on 20 December 2015 by Meeting in person:
As a master he is very experienced and able to put you at ease he has a kinky side and wants his subs to have there limits pushed and he is a very very nice guy aswell

*eter_upnorth (64), Man on 29 October 2015 by Meeting in person:
One nice man hit all the right spots cheers

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 6 September 2015 by Meeting in person:
Well its gets better every time I meet Derek he such a genuine friendly down to earth guy , I had a great afternoon with him kissing caressing and sucking .

*tillwilling (66), Man on 11 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
Thanks you master for a very enjoyable first meet. Packed a lot in to a relatively short time. Very very satisfying, thank you

*elter-skelter (61), Man on 10 May 2015 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek again tonight for a 3 some very interesting night great guy very genuine and will meet again

*ezzad (61), Man on 4 March 2015 by Meeting in person:
Enjoyed a good session with a caring master who helped me relax and perform, and will definitely see him again.

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 1 March 2015 by Meeting in person:
Another great meet with Derek this time we had use of his friends sling which I was soon in. He's a real genuine friendly guy great kisser and lovely cock and very handy with his fingers, will deffo be meeting for more.

*he Subservient one (55), Man on 2 February 2015 by Meeting in person:
What a guy!, I have met Derek several times now and each meet gets better. He is one of the genuine ones on here,great kisser nice cock too hoping to meet with him very soon for more.

*elter-skelter (61), Man on 4 January 2015 by Meeting in person:
Derek is a very genuine and nice guy he did exactly as we had talked about and took me in hand hope to meet again for some more exciting sexy fun times

*uperJ (61), Man on 26 November 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met Derek for the second time. A very accommodating gentleman, who certainly knows how to charm a cock. Sucked and wanted me to a frenzy, whilst pulling my nipples. I'll be seeing him again. x

*ary_71 (53), Man on 16 November 2014 by Meeting in person:
I've met Derek a few times now, he's a very nice and sexy guy who never fails to please.

*ndyhornybi (64), Man on 30 September 2014 by Meeting in person:
Derek is a very genuine and likeable guy who is easy to get on with and who "does what it says on the packet" he has varied and interesting sexual tastes which make for a more satisfying experience he is an accomplished and experienced so don't miss out if you're ever in the area you definitely won't leave disappointed

*orefunmatt (50), Man on 13 June 2014 by Meeting in person:
mmmm met this guy in the afternoon and we had such a horny time master and I loved sucking your cock

*oris618 (59), Man on 25 April 2014 by Meeting in person:
I had a very enjoyable last minute 3 way session with the master and his slave. Very genuine. Cheers. X

*ickeys1 (54), Man on 16 March 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met my MASTER DEREK 3 times now. He is always very strict but very fair. Great cock very clean very dominant. Hope to visit him again soon. All you subs out there get in touch with him you'll have a great time.

*ottsswinger (36), Man on 10 March 2014 by Meeting in person:
I have this bloke 2 or 3 times before 100% gen I will always make time to meet again ace guy

*alders24 (51), Man on 20 January 2014 by Meeting in person:
Met this wonderful guy on my 1st day as a member. He took me in hand and made my 1st meet one to remember If you get the chance to meet D take it

*averick6102 (63), Man on 21 December 2012 by Meeting in person:
what can hi say had a good time would meet again thanks

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